looking for sporty singles for love, romance, dating or establishing healthy relationships that will last a lifetime with. The hardest thing to change is our own way of thinking. The power of language is real. Sincerely, Scott Cooper, a gay athlete, scott Cooper is a December 2013 graduate of Augsburg College in Minneapolis with.A. People are resistant to change; I get that. To any athlete afraid of having an openly gay teammate: Lets first talk showers and football, since that seems to be a big concern for some players, especially in light of Michael Sam coming out. Is your best softball team playing this weekend?